Why donated do not give? What's bad about it?
"Do not look a gift horse in the mouth" is an expressionknow everything, but very many people disagree with him, especially today, when gifts are given almost global significance. After all, it is believed that the more expensive the present is at value, the higher the gifter appreciates you. For many, it is absolutely normal to "order" a gift, that is, to tell your relatives in plain language what exactly they should give you. Well, maybe that's what makes sense. Let the gift in thiscase and it will not be a surprise, but in the housethere will not be too much rubbish. You need a lot more than an unnecessary surprise, although a "custom" thing. And a person, perhaps, put his whole soul into his present and, not knowing what to give, long chose it, sincerely believing that you will like it. Perhaps he would be glad to give something more expensive, but there is no financial opportunity. And this does not mean that he treats you worse than the one that showered you with gold, diamonds and iPhones. He showed attention to you, he did not forget about your holiday, and this in itself is very valuable.
However, you still do not like this "suspiciously cheap" figurine or a large plush pink behemoth, and you have already thought about where it isdisgrace to put. But did it ever occur to you why the gift is not given? No, of course, they give, but is it good from an ethical point of view? Suppose you presented the same unnecessary pink hippopotamus to another person. But it can happen that he will be familiar with the one who gave it to you. Or he will give the toy to someone else who can also know your donor. That is, imagine for a moment what a person who has made you a present will feel, if he suddenly sees a gift given to you from strangers. You yourself would be pleased to see your gift not from the person to whom it was intended? And this is only one of the reasons why the gift is not given.
Another reason may be thatInitially, the presentation carried a certain emotional or semantic load, that is, the giver wanted to tell you something in this way. Choosing a souvenir, he put into it a piece of his soul and positive energy. But you, having not understood the hint, gave an object unnecessary to you to another person in whose hands the positive may turn out to be a negative: the gift was "tuned" to you, and you brushed it off. It is unlikely that this thing will bring happiness andjoy to the new owner. And there is an opinion that the clock is not given. It is believed that such a gift will necessarily lead to a break in relations (especially if they are love). Someone agrees with this sign and already had a sad experience of parting after the given watch, and someone after the tenth "alarm clock" continues to live happily with his companion.
But all the same, why donate is not given? Most likely, because if the gifted person is really dear to you, then you just should not let the conscience get away anyhow. You yourself / yourself will be ashamed later that you regretted the time to search and money to buy a good gift and presented the first thing that was unnecessary in the house. If one is so eager to get rid of the unwanted presentation and you do not believe in any prejudices about energy, then of course you can give the thing to someone who needs it, or sell it, after all. On the question of why the gift is not given, only your own "I" can answer.