Why do I need him?
The question is why I need him asked a largenumber of female representatives. In our opinion, the roots of this issue go especially to the relationship between specific types of personalities. But first you also need to understand why you need "he". Perhaps, after you look "in yourself" and understand this question, the problem that led you to this question will automatically be resolved. If this did not happen, then the source of this problem is not in you.
Analyze the situation
First of all, you need to find out the reason forwhich you had such a question at all - why should I tell him? One of the options - you are unhappy with his attitude towards yourself and doubt that you need this person. In this case, again, we need to consider both sides of the relationship - both him and himself. After all, it is quite possible that you make too high demands on your young man, and behave a little self-centeredly. In order to reveal this, you can compare your and his social circle. You and your girlfriends may well be the norm of the behavior of the "princess", but for your boyfriend such relationships are not a generally accepted norm of conduct. If this is so, then the reason in you and you should reconsider your attitude to the situation.
If the circle of communication you have about the same, andyou communicate "on the same wavelength," but the question of why I need him, still excites you, then you can address this problem to the youngest person, and ask him directly about it. It is possible that you will immediately get an answer to your question and calm down. If you do not have the courage, and each time you digress from your intention to ask him directly, you can analyze his behavior and attitude towards you.
Ask yourself why did you have such a question
It seems to you that he does not give you enoughattention? Here the reason for this behavior may well be the character of your young man. Look at how he behaves with other girls. If as well as with you, it may turn out that he is just looking for a more suitable couple, and with you at the moment communicates simply because he has not found anyone more suitable for him. If, with other girls, he is even less sociable than with you, it may well be that he is just simply modest or indecisive in dealing with girls, and he does not pay much attention to you simply because he is afraid of doing something "wrong" ". It may also be that he shows much more attention to other girls than to you. In this case, you should be alert - it may turn out that you need him to attract the attention of another person, to make her jealous or just for the time being fill your society with the free time that has not been bored. Usually in such cases, his attention to you is periodic. For example, he often forgets about some important things to you or events, transfers or cancels your meetings with him, and they happen less and less often. It may be that in the company of his and his friends you feel forgotten and a little lonely, while all the rest are fun and interesting to communicate. This is also a sure sign that your society is not too expensive for your boyfriend, otherwise he would not let you feel this way in his company.