How to punish the abuser?
The desire to punish the abuser is natural for anyman, especially since the desire to compensate the offender caused by the evil is quite just. Let's try to consider options for how to punish the offender, not losing their dignity and not falling to the criminal court.
Revenge for the offender: important rules and ways
First, it should be remembered that any actions,committed by the heat, under the influence of emotions, most likely will not bring the desired effect. Therefore, all your actions must be carefully thought through and considered.
Secondly, the offender's punishment must be proportionate. If, in response to a petty insult, you let the abuser and his entire family around the world, then later you will feel uncomfortable - your conscience sticks.
Thirdly, it is necessary to choose the correct punishment,to correlate its appearance with the social and material situation of the offender, his level of development. Simply put, if you try to offend the boor in response to his insult, he will simply take it as a passing fact of his biography. But if he is forced to make public apologies by a court decision, he will already take this fact as real punishment, especially if he occupies a high position in the society.
Fourthly, always remember that beforeto decide on the punishment of the offender, it is always worthwhile to learn more about him. Information and evidence is your weapon's main. If the desire to punish the abuser is strong enough and finances allow, there is no need to collect information himself, now there are quite a few specialized detective agencies.
Now you can consider options for how you can implement retribution to your abuser.
Career and finances
If your abuser moves briskly along the career pathstairs, working in a field directly related to finance or the provision of services, or you learned that he simply has plans to improve his financial situation, try to hit his pocket or career:
- Entrepreneurial activity is rareis carried out without any violations, even small ones, especially in the sphere of trade and provision of services. If your abuser is from this sphere, you have sufficient chances to provide him with a long headache, informing about existing violations in the control and fiscal bodies. This may be a tax or labor inspection, fire protection, etc .;
- If the offender engages in public orpolitical activity, the destruction of his image will be a blow to his career and a terrible punishment for himself. To do this, it is sufficient to disclose facts that impartially characterize it;
- Perhaps your abuser cherishes just personal plans,how to improve your financial condition. Let's say he expects to receive an inheritance. To punish him, it is enough to destroy these plans. For example, find other applicants for inherited property.
In all these cases, it must be remembered that all collected information must be fully reliable and provable, otherwise there is a chance to incur responsibility for libel.
The abuser has spread information about you thatdefame honor and dignity, undermine the reputation, or offended your honor and dignity in public? You have a good chance of bringing him to criminal liability for defamation or insult, applying to the court in the order of private prosecution. Your boss called you a drunkard and a drone? Added obscenities? This is slander and insult.
In the same way, you can attract the abuser forbeating. And if the medical commission determines that as a result of the beating you were disabled from 7 to 21 days, then the offender can be attracted for causing slight damage to health.
Before applying to the court is notforget that the burden of proof lies with you. Collect the relevant documents, find the witnesses. If there are beatings, you should contact the emergency department or other medical institution and record the damage in the certificate.
Around us, mysterious and oftenunexplained events that can make you believe in the existence of magical powers. Yes, and various magicians and sorcerers of all kinds assure that in the question of how to punish the offender, magic has its own recipes, as effective as real ones. Try to contact a practicing magician, or use a magic spell from the appropriate literature or from the Web.
Folk wisdom is accumulated for centuries. Who knows, maybe prababkiny conspiracies, which are passed down from generation to generation, will help to punish the offender. Moreover, the conspiracy to punish the offender is quite easy, there are enough books on this topic now. Or maybe you were told by a grandmother-whisperer who lives in a nearby village? You can try to contact her.