How to get acquainted with men?
I decided to write this article because constantlyI see around a lot of single women who simply do not know how to get acquainted with men, although, as you will see in the future, there is no particular difficulty in this - except for some restructuring of their own psychology, of course. But, dear women, in this case, the end justifies the means, is not it? Now let's talk about everything in order.
Where to get better acquainted with men
It is with this question that it usually begins"Problem list", and one of the most common excuses is: "on the Internet there are some perverts or loafers, and in other places I, a poor girl, get acquainted simply unrealistic." Well, with this approach it is really unrealistic to get acquainted. But we will talk about this in the appropriate place, but for now here is a list of specific places where you get acquainted with men:
- Internet network (thematic sites, forums, chats, etc.);
- cultural and entertainment events (concerts, holidays, performances, etc.);
- catering establishments (cafes, bars, restaurants of different directions);
- large companies (birthdays, gatherings with friends, trips to nature, etc.);
- work (if your activity is connected with communication).
I think the above list will be enough for you,so to speak, to assess the breadth and scope of the field of activity. Women get acquainted with men almost everywhere and the list of such places for men, believe me, will not be very different. Now it's time to talk more about the most promising ways of dating.
The global network is good because you can safelyany problems be yourself. However, many, and especially women, are afraid, as they say, "run into" the deceivers. But if you think about it: and where is the guarantee that the one with whom you are not acquainted "virtually" will not deceive you? Therefore, those women who like to spend a lot of time at the computer, this way of dating will suit perfectly. Yes, and to understand who is who on the Internet, it is not so difficult: it's enough just to be attentive. And sometimes there are also pleasant surprises, when the braggart and the lover of "prikolnutsya" and not too kartipy to express themselves, in fact, it is quite adequate and well-bred person. The reverse examples are correct, so the advice here will be: do not become attached to the virtual image and try to quickly translate these relations into the real plane. If you live in the same city, then, having met and chatting a little on the forum or in a social network, why not agree to meet and sit in a cafe or just wander around the city? So you will learn about each other much more. Perceive the Internet as a means to attract that single, but do not fill the relationship with the person with the notorious "Wirth".
It can be meetings of representatives of that oranother forum on which you communicate, or so-called "chatkovki" - meetings in a real place, where visitors come from one or another chat room. Common interests bring together, in any case, this is the bridge that can help you to establish strong relations. By the way, chat rooms and forum meetings are good and their relaxed atmosphere - there are almost all of each other "on you and the pen", which has a good acquaintance. And lovers of flirting, and thirsting for a serious relationship can find an object to their liking, so use the opportunity.
If your professional activity is related tocommunication, then you are very lucky - in this case it is enough just to establish friendly relations with the object of your interest for the beginning, or at least just get acquainted. If customers come to your office, or you are looking for customers yourself, to establish relationships and nothing at all, except your desire, is not required. Start by discussing working moments, and there probably will be an opportunity to "catch on".
Use the opportunities provided to youfriends. Of course, there is a great temptation to spend an evening at home with a favorite book or online game, but do you want to meet? So do not hesitate and go to the celebration to a friend or friend, agree to the offer of friends and good friends about rest in nature in a cheerful company or hike somewhere. In the end, go with a friend to a cafe or other cozy place where the chance to get acquainted with a man will be much higher than lying down at home on the couch.
How to get to know a man
So we got to the very top. In order to please a man, you need, first, to look accordingly. And the point here is not in your external data, but in the ability to present yourself. Who will be interested in a woman who has left herself, who is afraid to say a word and nervously reacting to the attempts of men to talk to her? Of course, there is a possibility that this man will not scare away, but I will judge by myself and in my circle of familiar men. If a woman avoids men, is afraid to communicate with them, this will attract very few people. You just need to overcome 2-3 times yourself, start a conversation, show interest in a common theme - and with each next time it will turn out to be much simpler and more natural. Women who say "men do not meet me" often behave too passively and timidly. However, there are other cases when, in order to cover up her shyness and modesty, the woman, on the contrary, tries to appear bold and interested, and from the outside it can look like excessive obsession or even cheekiness. Therefore, I will quote here a beaten, but from this no less true axiom that in everything you need to observe the measure. If you notice that your response is not the same as you would like, reduce their number, take it to others: glances, gestures. Sometimes silence can say much more. When asked why men do not get acquainted, the answer in each case will be different, but in almost any case, the output must be found. It's enough just to calm down and look at your behavior. No, not from the outside, but to analyze what kind of reaction was to one or other of your words, gestures and views and slightly adjust the behavior. Well, look after appearance. Nothing personal, just men are so arranged that first of all they evaluate a woman precisely from the point of view of sexual attractiveness, and only then look at other qualities. And, as a rule, just some correction in the image, so that men began to perceive you completely differently. I wish you to meet a man worthy of you!