How to get acquainted with a girl?
Many young people who want to startlove relationships, have great difficulty in getting to know the girls. How to overcome your shyness and indecisiveness? How to approach her and what to talk about, without frightening her with her initiative? How can you meet a girl when you have no experience with the opposite sex? Answers to all these questions you will find in our article!
How to meet a girl: general recommendations
Today has become widespreadmovement as a "pickup", from the English. pick up. The task of a pick-up truck is to seduce a girl you like, as they say "divorce for sex." After that, the relationship usually ends. However, not everyone who is engaged in a pickup truck is notorious ladies and Don Juan. Some young men with the help of a pickup just want to learn how to effectively communicate with the opposite sex and, perhaps, find a girl for a serious relationship. So let's look at some pickup methods that will tell you how to get to know the girl correctly.
- External presentability. Whatever one may say, girls like strong men. It is not necessary to pump yourself musculature, as in Sylvester Stalone (by the way, on the contrary it repels some girls), but it is necessary to be in good physical shape. Get well, play sports, sleep, lead a healthy lifestyle. The girl wants to feel secure in your society. It is also important to have a neat appearance: clean shoes, clean clothes, a neat hairdo, a slight fragrance of perfume - all this will do you good. Create your own unique image that will emphasize your dignity.
- Less doubt! How to get acquainted with a beautiful girl? It is easy - to approach it, without hesitation and to start some actions or, at least, to attract her attention with a look. The worst thing you can do is start thinking, "Oh, she's so beautiful, she will send me." And what if I'm married? Oh, yes, my shoes are dirty .. and so on. " The more you allow your inner fears to take possession of you, the less your chances of success! Remember, girls like confident men. Even if you get a refusal, what's wrong with that? But you will gain a precious experience, which will certainly help you the next time you meet. Do not take rejection as a stone in your direction, a girl may have a thousand reasons not depending on you, so as not to start communication. For example, she does not have time, she is busy, hurrying somewhere. Do not dig yourself and look for flaws. Thoughts are positive in any situation!
- Be yourself! Do not play the role of macho or someone else. The unnaturalness of behavior will immediately repel the girl. Be relaxed, free. If you do not like the girl, then do not try to achieve her reciprocity at all costs - just wasting your strength! Just switch to another object.
- A look and a smile. Do not forget about the attractive power of your eyes. Communication is good starting with an "intimate" look, that is, a look that lasts a little longer than usual. Such a reception will prepare the girl for your approach. If you jump sharply into her personal space and start a conversation, it can scare the girl, and she will want to get rid of you as soon as possible. When you look at her, smile with an open sincere smile. It shows your interest and confidence. Look how she reacts to the look - if she also looks at you, smiles, then everything is fine!
- When you approach the girl, do not invade too much.sharply into her personal space (usually it is at arm's length). If you do this, then such a sign will be regarded as aggression, pressure. Stop at the border of your personal space, and gradually reduce the distance. Do not forget about your posture - keep your back straight.
- Do not hide your hands behind your back - this can be regarded as a hidden threat. Gesticulate when you talk. If you do not know where to put your hands, take an item, for example, a phone.
How to meet a girl: phrases from which you can start a conversation
Remember that the lion's share of information we receive nonverbally, that is, in our facial expressions, a pose of timbre of voice. Women like low male voices and relaxed confident body.
- you can, of course, start with a traditional "welcome", but this word does not always work. It's good only for attracting attention, but what's next?
- appeal to "you" or "you"? It all depends on the girl. If she is too young, then it's ridiculous to apply to her for "you." If you immediately switch to "you" when talking with a more adult woman (25-30 years old), then she may find you impolite. The solution is quite simple: start a conversation with "you", after 4-5 phrases go to "you". If the girl also switched to "you", then you are already a little closer and you have established a sufficient degree of trust between you.
- many pickups recommend starting a meetingoutside the box. How to get to know a girl in the first place? Say something out of the ordinary, stunning. For example, there is a girl in a red hat, and you say: "Little Red Riding Hood, I'm a gray wolf, I'll eat you! Treat me with pies to stay alive!" While the dumbfounded girl thinks what to answer, you suggest she go to the nearest cafe to eat pies with tea. Not everyone can act in such an unusual way, and not all girls peck at such a fishing rod, but many like this non-standard approach.
- if you do not know what to talk about, look around. Use such themes: the environment, the appearance of the girl, the place where you are. Engage for some detail and start a conversation with her. The main thing is to establish contact, if the girl is ready for communication, then the conversation will not be difficult to continue.
How to meet a girl on the Internet, vkontakte?
Use unexpected phrases to startdating as described above. You can post your profile on the dating site - signify your dignity and the qualities that you are looking for in a woman. Do not forget to attach a quality photo. It is difficult to understand a person through the network, so it's better to get acquainted personally.
Here are some simple tips that will tell you how to get acquainted beautifully with a girl at school, on the street, in a cafe. Good luck!