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7 rules of psychology that you should know

1. Mirror rule.
The people around me are my mirrors. They reflect the characteristics of my own personality, often unaware of me. For example, if someone is rude to me, then I want it so much, I allow it. If someone deceives me again and again, it means that I have a tendency to believe anyone. So there is no one to be offended.
2. The Rule of Choice.
I realize that everything that happens in my life is the result of my own choice. And if today I communicate with a boring person, does it mean that I am also a boring and boring person? There are no bad and evil people - there are unhappy ones. If I tackle their problems, then I like it. So, no one to make a complaint. I myself cause all that happens to me. The authors and creators of their own destiny are ourselves.
3. The Rule of Error.
I agree with the fact that I can be wrong. It’s not always my opinion or my actions that other people should consider correct.The real world is not only black and white, there is also light gray and dark white. I am not IDEAL, I am just a good person and I have the right to make a mistake. The main thing is to be able to recognize it and fix it in time.
4. Compliance Rule.
I have exactly that, and exactly so much what I fit for, what I deserve, no more, no less, whether it concerns relationships with people, work or money. If I cannot love a person to the fullest, it is ridiculous to demand that this person SO love me. So all my claims are meaningless. And at the same time, when I decide to change - the people around me change (for the better).
5. Dependency rule.
Nobody owes me anything. I can selflessly help anyone I can. And this is a joy to me. To become good, you must become strong. To become strong, you have to believe that I can do everything. And I believe! But we must be able to say “NO!”
6. The Rule of Presence.
I live here and now. The past is not, because every second the present comes. There is no future because it is not there yet. Attachment to the past leads to depression, anxiety about the future causes anxiety. As long as I live in the present, I AM REAL. There is reason to rejoice.
7. The rule of optimism.
As we scold life, it passes by. The eyes see, the legs walk, the ears hear, the heart works, the Soul rejoices. My fitness - sunny summer, meadow and river. As long as I move, while the wind sweeps the skin, I live. When I watch TV, lying on the couch, or communicate with friends in the internet - I'm not in this, but in the other world.



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